I’ve not posted for a while because Marmie cat and I have been building creative empires (both), swimming in the sea (me), catching mice (Marmie) and exploring the garden and beyond (both).

We share the house and each evening we come home and discuss our day. It is wonderful for both of us to have a loving partner who understands how to soothe us when we are sad or tired, and with whom to play when we are happy and awake.


Since we started co-habiting four years ago, Marmie has helped me understand the meaning of life and I have helped her learn how to trust and communicate with humans. It is a strong partnership – our relationship is simple and appreciative. We both had emotional baggage when we met and were not sure if it was going to work out – but as trust grew, so did our love for each other. We appreciate good things when they happen and we go to sleep when they don’t. On high days and holidays we eat fishcakes and tinned tuna together.

I am thrilled to announce that Marmie is now a qualified feline life coach. She specialises in mediation and conflict resolution and also offers bespoke resilience-building workshops alongside one-to-one mentoring to lost or lonely people of all ages.

Although she is almost fully booked up with clients at the moment, if you are facing challenges and are human, please send us a message and I will call you for an introductory chat about Marmie’s services and to see if you might benefit from her unique skills.

Meanwhile, here’s her quote of the day:

“The choice of your partner will determine the quality of your life so choose wisely”.

We both wish you a happy and peaceful summer! ❤️